In the lives of many problems, in the news a lot of people rumored to jail simply because they could not withstand the emotions. Beatings, physical fights and even murder. How sayangnnya problems that arise simply because of trivial issues and emotions overflowing.
Some of the adverse events caused by emotion, real emotion itself is what? many psychologists meguraikan that emotion is like, namely:
The word emotion comes from the Latin, namely emovere, which means moving away. The meaning of this word implies that the propensity to act is an absolute must in emotion. According to Daniel Goleman (2002: 411) refers to a feeling of emotions and thoughts are typical, a biological and psychological circumstances and a series of tendencies to act. Emotion is basically the impetus to act.
Usually the emotion is a reaction to stimuli from outside and within the individual. As an example of happy emotions drive change a person's mood, so that physiologically seen laughing, sad emotions motivate people to behave cry.
Emotion-related physiological changes and various thoughts. So, emotion is one important aspect of human life, because emotions can be a motivator of behavior in terms of increase, but also can interfere with human intentional behavior. (Prawitasari, 1995)
Some leaders argued about the various emotions, such as Descartes. According to Descartes, emotions are divided into: Desire (desire), hate (hate), Sorrow (sadness / grief), Wonder (wonder), Love (Love) and Joy (joy). While JB Watson presents three kinds of emotions, namely: fear (fear), Rage (anger), Love (love).
Daniel Goleman (2002: 411) suggests some kind of emotion that do not vary much with the two figures above, namely:
a. Anger: fury, rage, hate, annoyed, upset the liver
b. Sadness: bitter, sad, somber, gloomy, melancholy, self love, despair
c. Fear: anxiety, nervousness, worry, anxiety, feeling scared, wary, edgy, horror
d. Enjoyment: happiness, happy, cheerful, happy, cheerful, happy, amused, proud
e. Love: acceptance, friendship, trust, kindness, sense of close, devotion, respect, and affection
f. Surprised: gasped, surprised
g. Annoyed: contemptible, contempt, disgust, nausea, dislike
h. embarrassed: embarrassed, upset
As described above, that all the emotions according to Goleman is basically the impetus to act. So a wide range of emotions that encourage individuals to respond or act against the existing stimulus.
so ... be careful to control your emotions. because of it you will be able to lose control in social life.

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